Sex first or Love first?

I think it's very important to identify which comes first when you decided to meet the person and be with him or her. Many are caught up into the mindset of sex first because it's what a human desire (i would say the most). I'm not saying this as if we are all perfect but the divine order is love first, then come sex. However, by looking generally into this world, it seems the human order are sex first.

Let's put our mindset straight and right, if it is sex first, can love blossom? It's a rational idea if love come first, and with sex (natural attractiveness that God has given) come later, it will blossom even more.

Just like a flower, without the roots, there won't be any transferring of nutrient to blossom up the flower or even making it to grow. The roots are supposed to be what a relationship should be enjoying in their fellowship, friendship, help, support, sacrifice, collaboration and etc (Nate Saint). These are the root or factors that love must be measured.

What comes after that, only you, your spouse and God knows .

Let our roots be strong before we get into any relationship and actions.

Oh, I'm not trying to condemn anything or anyone, but just some thoughts that come through my mind. You never know what a person may go through, may the Lord watches over us and guard our hearts that are engraved by His law, His words, and His love.

Take care :)